For Women Who Don't Want to Perform
In Bed, In Love, or In Life Anymore
Why 'Success' Isn't Enough Anymore - And What It Really Takes to Feel Deeply Loved,
Fully Alive and Unapologetically You.
Trained in body-based, experiential coaching
Transformation through the nervous system
Sessions tailored to your truth and desires
This is your invitation to slow down, feel more, and finally live the way your body’s been asking you to.
Name what you truly want without shame or apology. Trust that your desires are real and worthy of being met.
Learn to stay connected when things feel overwhelming or uncertain. Soften into sensation instead of shutting down.
Feel fully expressed without fear of being too much or too little. Practice honest connection without collapse or retreat.
Reclaim the spark beneath roles of control, care, or compliance. Explore the dance of devotion, and depth.
Speak your yes, no, and maybe with clarity and self-trust. Let your edges create safety, connection, and freedom.
INTEGRATION THROUGH PRACTICE
Turn insight into real-time embodied truth. Practice what matters most inside your body and your relationships.
I’m not here to fix you. I’m here to help you feel again, to reclaim the parts of you that have been silenced, softened, or shamed, and bring them all to the altar of your life.
I’m a certified sex and relationship coach, trained in the Somatica Method, but this isn’t about technique. It’s about truth.
After building and selling a successful business, I realized I had created everything except the life that actually turned me on, so I tore it all down.
I did the messy work of shedding masks. I chose embodiment over performance, pleasure over productivity, and a relationship where erotic truth is the sacred container.
Now, I help high-achieving women and couples reclaim the full, messy, beautiful truth of who they are, so they can stop performing and start living, leading, and loving from their bodies.
Learn how to want without shame, ask without fear, and receive without guilt.
Discover your unique erotic blueprint, not a script, a system, or a label.
Break free from people-pleasing and performative intimacy.
Rewrite patterns of conflict, withdrawal, or emotional shutdown.
Feel more at home in your body, your relationships, and your truth.
Experience depth, safety, and turn-on, without having to fix yourself first.
If this feels like what you’ve been craving, you’re in the right place.
(Once You Stop Settling for Half-Alive)
Not performative sex. Not obligatory intimacy. This is real, soul-deep, body-led arousal that makes you feel awake again.
Say what you need. Set the boundary. Own the fantasy and express it in a way that brings you closer, not farther apart.
Whether you're single or partnered, stop chasing crumbs. Anchor into connection that meets you, and nourishes you.
You don’t have to choose. You get to feel held, witnessed, and respected while also being worshiped, devoured, and desired.
Unlearn the shame. Rewrite the story. Learn to want, ask, receive, and actually enjoy the experience without apology.
You don’t have to live in your head anymore. You get to drop in, feel what's real, and finally just be in your body.
“I left with my
power back”
" Michelle helped me say things I’ve never said out loud. She helped me feel things I thought I’d numbed for good. I came for relationship coaching. I left with
my power back. "
— Private Client, Executive, 39
“I stopped hustling and started living”
"This work helped me stop performing success and start living in my full, turned-on truth. I’m not hustling anymore, I’m leading. From my body. From my power. From who I actually am. "
— Private Client, Coach, 38
“This was more than coaching”
“I used to think I had to do more to earn more. Now I know: when I honor my energy, everything expands. This wasn’t just coaching, it was liberation.”
— Private Client, CEO, 43
stay soft while holding power.
stay soft while holding power.
feel without getting swallowed.
You learned how to survive. You learned how to achieve.
You learned how to self-regulate, self-improve, and self-contain.
But you didn’t learn how to:
Ask for what you want without feeling needy.
The world taught you how to be impressive.
But no one taught you how to be intimately human.
This is that space. This is that work.
Stay when it’s vulnerable. Leave when it’s time.
Be touched without performing.
Be loved without hiding.
Shift 1:
Name Where You’re Performing
Where are you performing being “good,” “strong,” “chill,” or “sexy,” instead of being real? Most of us learn to wear masks to stay safe. But noticing the mask is the first act of liberation.
Try this now:
Close your eyes. Take 3 breaths.
Ask: Where am I pretending to be okay right now?
Shift 2:
Tell the Truth About Your Desire
Your desire isn’t a problem, it’s a compass. But most of us were taught to hide it, perform it, or apologize for it. Telling the truth is what reconnects us to our wanting.
Try this now:
Close your eyes. Take 3 breaths.
Ask: What’s one desire you’ve been afraid to name, even to yourself?
Shift 3:
Feel What You’re Avoiding
The parts you’re trying to avoid, like numbness, neediness, or fear, are the doorway to your freedom. We don’t bypass here. We feel our way through, even when it’s messy.
Try this now:
Close your eyes. Take 3 breaths.
Ask: What emotion are you secretly scared of feeling fully?
Shift 4:
Reclaim Erotic
Power & Polarity
Real erotic energy is messy, playful, and powerful. You don’t have to choose between softness and strength. You get to hold both, and all of you, at once.
Try this now:
Close your eyes. Take 3 breaths.
Ask: When do you feel most powerful in your body? What’s happening?
Shift 5:
Speak the
Unspoken
The thing you’re scared to say is the thing that sets you free. Every “hard conversation” is a chance to reclaim your voice. Speaking the unspoken brings you back into your truth.
Try this now:
Close your eyes. Take 3 breaths.
Ask: What are you aching to say in your relationship, business, or bed?
Shift 6:
Create Sacred Structure
Pleasure needs boundaries. Expression needs containment. Structure isn’t a cage, it’s safety for your expansion.When your body feels held, your voice opens.
Try this now:
Close your eyes. Take 3 breaths.
Ask: What is one boundary your body is begging you to set?
Before you say yes, it’s okay to ask. These answers are here to help you feel into what’s right for you.
This isn’t talk therapy, surface-level mindset work, or another “strategy.” This is embodied, experiential coaching rooted in erotic truth, emotional attunement, and nervous system safety. We don’t analyze your patterns, we practice shifting them in real time, in your body. So you can stop performing and finally feel what’s real. We focus on real, measurable business growth, not just theory. Our approach combines proven strategies, personalized guidance, and hands-on support to help you scale efficiently. We don’t offer generic advice; we tailor solutions to your specific needs.
You bring the real thing you’re navigating, whether it’s conflict, numbness, shutdown, desire, or confusion, and we drop into it together. In 60 minutes, you’ll experience what it’s like to be met, held, challenged, and invited into deeper truth. This session isn’t generic. It’s personalized, embodied, and life-changing.
This is for women (and couples) who are done settling in their sexuality, emotions, relationships, or energy. You’ve already done the therapy, the healing, the high performance. But you still feel disconnected from your body, your desire, your depth. This is for you if you’re ready to reclaim all of it.
Nope. This session stands alone. There is no hard pitch. Just depth. If you feel moved to go deeper after the session, we’ll talk about it. If not, you still leave with clarity, embodiment, and a real experience of what’s possible.
Come with honesty. Bring whatever is alive for you, including shame, fear, numbness, hunger, or confusion. You don’t need to have it all figured out. The only prep is your willingness to be real. The rest, we’ll navigate together.
Book your coaching consultation. This is not a sales call. This is a space for truth, reclamation, and transformation. If your body is saying yes...trust it.
© Michelle Feuerstein, 2025. All rights reserved.